TY - BOOK AU - Dyer , Wayne W. TI - Pulling Your Own Strings SN - 9780099454403 U1 - 158.1 PY - 1979/// CY - London PB - Arrow Books , KW - Philosophy KW - Self awreness KW - positive thinking KW - Decision waking KW - Problem solving KW - Life coaching KW - Personal development N1 - Declaring yourself as a non-victim; operating from strength; Refusing to be seduced ny what i over or cannot be changed; Avoiding the comparison trap; Becoming quietly effective and not expecting 'them' to understand; Teaching others how you want to be treated; Never place loyalty to institutions and things above loyalty to yourself; Distinguishing between judgments and reality; Being creatively alive in every situation; Victim or victor? your present victim profile based on 100 typical situations ER -